Beatrice Mwansa

In a world obsessed with fast fashion and loud trends, there is something quietly powerful about dressing in timeless elegance. This look, shot in Grand Rapids, Michigan, embodies everything I love about old money style: sophistication, restraint, grace, and confidence. As a Zambian woman embracing vintage glamour, I want to teach you not just how to style like this but how to carry the energy behind it. Because true elegance isn’t loud. It’s intentional.

1. The Blueprint of Old Money Style

Old money style isn’t about how much something costs.  It’s about how it feels and what it communicates. This look includes a black and white trim vintage style dress by Danny & Nicole New York, found on eBay for under $50, designed with structured tailoring, gold buttons, and a double breasted front. Styled with a bold red lip, a structured wide-brim fedora hat inspired by Audrey Hepburn, a classic black Lady Dior handbag, and white Aquazzura pointed toe pumps with a bow at the back. These elements aren’t just beautiful they tell a story. A story of heritage, dignity, and timelessness.

Tips to Build Old Money Style:

Stick to neutral or rich tones (navy, black, cream, deep red)

Opt for classic silhouettes: midi dresses, blazers, trousers

Choose quality over quantity

Incorporate pearl or gold accessories

Keep your look intentional and minimal

2. What is Soft Power in Style? Soft power in fashion is about commanding attention without shouting. It’s about showing up so well put together that people feel your energy before you even speak. That’s what this outfit does. The bold color, the structure, and the polish all exude quiet confidence. It’s not about seduction or statement it’s about presence.

You don’t need to be loud to be powerful. You just need to be aligned.

3. Dressing Like the Woman You Want to Be When I styled this outfit, I wasn’t just getting dressed. I was stepping into the version of myself I’ve always admired. Dressing well is a form of self-respect. It tells the world, and yourself, that you are worthy of care and attention.

Ask yourself:

What would the woman I want to become wear?

How would she carry herself?

How can I bring that into my life today?

4. Zambian Elegance Meets Western Streets Being a Zambian woman living in Grand Rapids, I carry a blend of cultures. My roots are rich in tradition and grace, and I bring that into my modern surroundings. This outfit bridges that gap: African strength, Western refinement.

Style is more than fabric and color it’s energy. This look taught me that when you dress with intention, you carry soft power wherever you go. Let this be your reminder: Elegance is not a trend. It’s a choice. And it’s always yours to make.

Where to Shop for Old Money Style.

For good quality vintage pieces, check your local thrift stores or even eBay. You can also find old money inspired styles on Amazon, but remember  it’s always quality over quantity.

Other great places to shop include:

Poshmark for secondhand designer and vintage items

Etsy, especially for vintage dresses, pearl accessories, and structured handbags

The RealReal  for authenticated luxury fashion, including pre-loved Lady Dior bags and Aquazzura heels

Vestiaire Collective  for high-end vintage and old money wardrobe pieces

AliExpress  where I purchased the wide-brim fedora hat in this look for under $40